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My Journey Through “Her Own Terms”

"In 'Her Own Terms,' I embark on a personal journey to dismantle restrictive narratives around female sexuality. Join me as I explore the interplay of faith and freedom, advocating for a world where female desire is celebrated as a sacred part of our humanity."

Embracing Diversity: My Approach as a Sex-Positive Therapist

As a sex-positive therapist, I explore the spectrum of sexual identities and expressions, advocating for authenticity and inclusivity in both personal relationships and professional settings. Discover how embracing diversity in sexual preferences can enrich our lives and communities.

Exploring Spirituality and Sexuality in “Something for Everybody” Podcast

In an enlightening episode of the "Something for Everybody" podcast, we delve into sexuality, spirituality, and personal identity with Aaron, offering insights into how embracing diverse experiences enhances community understanding.

Embrace Diversity: A Wake-Up Call for Therapists

Introduction My message today is a blend of challenge and invitation: adapt your practice to serve Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and queer populations effectively, or risk losing relevance. This shift is not about passing judgment but fostering growth and responding to urgent change. Ignoring these shifts is not merely a disservice but a significant professional oversight. […]

Understanding the Unique Experiences of Queer Couples

Queer couples navigate a world that is often structured without consideration for their needs and experiences. Did you know that according to the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, queer individuals face a higher rate of hate violence compared to their heterosexual counterparts? Or that, as reported by the Human Rights Campaign, 46% of queer workers […]

The Polyamory Paradox: A Therapist’s Journey

As a therapist with a unique upbringing in a household of non-traditional relationships, I’ve always been fascinated by the intricacies of human connection, particularly in the realm of consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and polyamory. While society often perpetuates a narrow view of relationships, I’ve witnessed firsthand the beauty, complexity, and resilience of CNM dynamics. Growing up, […]

The Intersection of Faith and Sexuality: Focusing on Female Sexuality and Shame

This is a topic close to my heart, both as a mental health advocate, a theologian and someone who has personally navigated the complexities of integrating spirituality with sexual identity. The journey of reconciling these aspects of our lives can be challenging, filled with questions, doubts, and often a sense of isolation. Yet, it’s also […]

Resilience and Authentic Connections: Navigating Relational Success in Life and Leadership

My grandfather and at the Abraham House hospice in Utica, NY a few weeks prior to his passing. Relational success, acting as my compass in both personal and professional realms, weaves a tapestry of connections—from the warmth of family bonds to the nuanced dance between employer and employee. This guiding principle stood out prominently during […]

Queer Women and Mental Health: Insights, Challenges, and Solutions for Wellbeing

The mental wellbeing of queer women is a topic that resonates deeply with me, both personally and professionally. As we delve into the complex fabric of their experiences, it’s crucial to not only rely on statistics but to also share stories that bring these numbers to life. The National LGBT Health Education Center reveals a […]

Nurturing Growth: The Inclusive Journey of AMR Therapy

AMR Therapy: Working to Create a Safe Space AMR Therapy pushes the conventional bounds of an online psychotherapy business, created for individuals exploring their identities, navigating the complexities of religion and queerness, or finding their way through non-monogamous relationships. Yet, our mission extends beyond these specific dimensions. It stands as a haven for anyone wishing […]

Navigating the Language of Love: An In-Depth Exploration of “Alternative Relationships”

As I delve into the complexities of “alternative relationships” within my practice and discussions with peers, especially within the queer therapy community, I find myself at the intersection of language, identity, and societal norms. The term “alternative relationships,” encompassing non-monogamous, polyamorous, open, and other non-traditional relationship structures, has sparked extensive debate and reflection. Drawing on […]

Navigating the Landscape of Ethical Non-Monogamy: Discover, Discuss, and Grow Together

Group will be led by therapist, Briana Monroe In an era where the traditional contours of relationships are increasingly being reimagined, Non-Monogamy emerges as a pivotal conversation. It’s more than a trend; it’s a reflection of the diverse ways individuals seek connection, love, and fulfillment. As curiosity and adoption of non-monogamous relationships grow, so does […]

Navigating the Crossroads of Religion, Sexuality, and Purity Culture: A Therapist’s Journey

Religion, sexuality, and purity culture have long been intertwined, shaping personal beliefs, societal norms, and individual experiences. While religion can provide a framework for understanding morality and ethics, it has also been used to enforce restrictive and harmful concepts, particularly in the realm of sexuality. Purity culture, a subset of religious teachings that emphasizes the […]

Navigating Identity: The Essential Guide for Mental Health Professionals

Standing in front of my MSW class over a decade ago, I found myself at the beginning of what would become a transformative exploration into the nuances of gender and sexuality. That presentation, far from just an academic requirement, marked the start of my dedicated effort to illuminate the critical importance of these distinctions in […]

Navigating Entrepreneurial Success: A Queer Female CEO’s Odyssey

AMR Therapy and Support Services Team As we step into a new year, I reflect on the unconventional path that led me to helm a thriving mental health business, as a queer woman. This entrepreneurial journey is a tale of overcoming distinct challenges, demonstrating strategic resilience, and committing to redefine success within an industry bound […]

Navigating Changing Relationships

In the ever-evolving realm of modern relationships, scholars like Dr. Helen Fisher, Dr. Justin Lehmiller, and Dr. Debby Herbenick shed light on the shifting attitudes toward love, sexuality, and connections. Recent studies indicate an increasing interest in non-traditional relationship structures, challenging established norms. In this changing landscape, my personal story from a queer non-monogamous household […]

Harnessing “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” for Mental Health: Insights into Resilience and Empowerment

In the rich tapestry of late 90s and early 2000s pop culture, “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” emerges not merely as a show but as a profound narrative powerhouse that encapsulates themes of empowerment, resilience, and the essence of community. This series transcends traditional entertainment boundaries, weaving deep psychological insights and human experiences into its storytelling […]

Harmony in Healing: Navigating Boundaries, Co-Regulation, and Appropriate Self-Disclosure in Diverse Mental Health Practices

Navigating the landscape of mental health within diverse and underrepresented communities demands a keen understanding of the subtle intricacies of boundaries and co-regulation. In these unique contexts, where the need for cultural competence is required, boundaries and co-regulation become not just essential tools but the very compass that steers our therapeutic endeavors toward impactful and […]

From Liberation Theology to Papal Progress: A Decade-Long Odyssey in Queer Faith, Inclusion, and Social Justice

Embark with me on a transformative journey that spans almost two decades, from my grad school days at Loyola Marymount University to the recent groundbreaking decision by Pope Francis to approve blessings for same-sex couples. This narrative is marked by challenges, triumphs, and a profound commitment to fostering understanding and dialogue. In the halls of […]

Empowerment on Her Own Terms: Reclaiming Female Sexuality

In today’s world, the conversation around human sexuality is evolving, yet the narrative of women’s sexual empowerment and self-expression still lurks in the shadows of mainstream discussion. “Empowerment on Her Own Terms: Reclaiming Female Sexuality,” my forthcoming book, seeks to illuminate this uncharted territory, offering a beacon of empowerment for women and the professionals who […]

Embracing Your Unique Path in Therapy: A Journey of Personalized Healing

Welcome to the Dance of Therapy In the ever-changing world of therapy, the relationship between you and your therapist is like a beautifully choreographed dance. This partnership is crucial in navigating the complexities of personal growth and healing. It’s about finding a rhythm that suits you, one step at a time. I have carefully studied […]

Embracing the Spectrum: A Journey Towards Female Sexual Empowerment

My journey into sexual empowerment was deeply shaped by the unique family dynamics I was born into. Raised by queer parents who openly celebrated sexuality and pleasure, I grew up in a household where sexual expression was not just accepted but encouraged. This environment was in stark contrast to the conservative societal norms prevalent outside […]

Embracing a Sex-Positive Paradigm: A Call to Therapists for Progress

In the dynamic realm of therapeutic practice, a crucial paradigm shift challenges entrenched norms around sex education and client interactions. As a queer female therapist supporting marginalized communities, including those exploring non-monogamy, I’ve witnessed the transformative impact of embracing a sex-positive approach. In the 21st century, healthy relationships hinge on the unwavering concept of consent, […]

Diving Deep into the Heart of Pride: Navigating the Layers of Equality

In the kaleidoscope of human experience, Pride Parades emerge as vibrant spectacles, not just of celebration but of profound social impact. Delving into the intricate layers of their significance unveils a narrative woven with threads of acceptance, advocacy, and the relentless pursuit of equality. As we embark on this exploration, it is imperative to not […]

Bridging Perspectives: The Importance of Diverse Voices in the Transgender Community

Emmanuel and me. This is our last photo together. In the wake of Emmanuel’s sudden passing, a trip to Arizona to be with his sister Marissa took on a new meaning for me. Emmanuel was more than a friend; he was a brother to me for decades, and his loss left a profound gap. His […]